Wednesday, June 25, 2008


Friday marks our two year anniversary of our acknowledgement of our marriage being wife-led. It was two years ago that I very nervously gave her the book from AroundHerFinger.

We've had our ups and downs. While she openly acknowledges that our marriage is wife-led by both deed and word, she struggle to use the term "wife-led."

However, right now, we are on a big up and I'm enjoying it. I also know that it will go down again. However, I feel that the next down turn won't be nearly as drastic due to the fact that it was her idea to reinstate this style of marriage.

I'll have limited internet access over the next few weeks but will try and post if anything special happens on Friday.

As always I wish the readers of my blog much happiness. Peace.

Monday, June 23, 2008

I'd Do Anything To.....

Very funny story.

My wife and I are dining outside at a local restaurant. A woman in her 60s is dressed quite flamboyantly, something out of a child's fable. My wife and I became very intrigued and she told me to find out "her story" and where she lived. So I had to use the restroom a few times, trying to muster up the corage to approach this woman, her husband the other couple they were with. I'm sure anyone paying attention thought I had the world's smallest bladder. Even the waitress new of our little game and was egging me on.

Then it happened. My wife said, "3 licks." "I'll allow you to lick me 3 times." Well, game on baby. I can't remember the last time my wife allowed my tongue down there.

Up I go, so to speak. As I approach this woman I can only think of going down on my wife. I've got absolutely no idea what I going to say. And then I'm there. Standing next to the table waiting for a break in the conversation. What the fuck am I going to say? "Hi my wife promised me 3 licks...?" That won't work.

And as she looks up I blurt out, "Sorry to interrupt your dinner but my wife and I were admiring your necklace." (Think Southwest, red-neck beltbuckle on a chain.) "Did you get it around here?"

Well, her and her companions were pretty loaded. She had bought it in Palm Springs, lives here in the summer and Az in the winter. Next thing I know, I'm sitting with them and find out the other woman's uncle used to live in my house. Off in the distance my wife and waitress are both stunned and laughing.

As they left the restaurant, the waitress handed me their doggie bag. I ran them down and wouldn't you know it, this crazy lady gave me a bit of a hug and played a little grab ass!

Talking to a stranger. No problem. I'd drive my car off a cliff to go down on my wife.

Friday, June 20, 2008

Earning and Loosing Points

I made a really nice dinner for my wife last night. Well, nice for limited skills. I stopped by the market, bought some fresh veggies, marinated them and grilled them. They went great over the baked potato.

She thanked me and said I earned some points. She never tells me how many points, what they actually earn and how many points I currently have or how many I need. It's just a playful thing.

After dropping off my son at football camp this morning I was going to search out one of his previous teachers. While waiting I got a call from my wife. I thought she was going to quiz me on how things were going.


"Where are my bras?" "Are there some drying somewhere?" As much as I like my wife braless, she doesn't and certaintly can't go to her very powerful job.....loose.

Oh shit, this isn't going to end well for me.

"Um, errr, I had to rewash some yesterday. They are still in the washing machine."

"OK." Click.

At home later..."You lost your points."

Not easy cum.....very easy go. LOL

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Daily Routine

Some people are great writers and have lots to write about. I'm not either. I didn't get into the pyschology of a wife-led marriage. As my wife said once, simply, "this is how we (our marriage) functions."

We did have wonderful sex on Saturday night. It was after a neighbor and his friends came over for dinner. Our relationship was fairly obvious. I ran around like a nut grilling and serving and she showed them our house and renovations while drinking wine. After they left, we were outside at our fire-pit and eventually she had me strip. She teased me with her feet and asked me what I'd do if a neighbor walked into our backyard. I told her whatever she said.

Since Saturday night, not much wife-led. She was very bossy in the kitchen, barking orders regarding dinner. Mostly asking why it wasn't ready exactly when she got home. (Grilling chicken is not an exact science and her schedule can vary by an hour:) It was very playful.

Last night we went to a park. She just said we are going. Prior to leaving the house last week I asked where and she said it doesn't matter. (As in, I'm the damn boss, get in the car.) I started to ask her again, where, but then said, "Lets go, it doesn't matter."

And due to driving a teenager around pretty late at night, I haven't served her coffee the past two mornings.

So there you have it. Our "routine" for the past few days. It changes, like "vannilla" marriages. For all those that are starting out or attempting to enter into a wife-led marriage, it's not kinky sex all the time. There is a huge difference between wanting your wife to be bossy in the bedroom and an actual real life wife-led marriage. As soon as you realize the difference the better off you both will be.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Father's Day Part 2

In my last post I joked that Father's Day shouldn't be a day off from serving our wives. Funny, my wife didn't either.

We were out at a mall on Friday and she turned to me (in front of the store clerk) and asked what I was going to get her for father's Day because, after all, I couldn't be a Dad without her. So now, even Father's Day is about her. :)

The best thing is that she has had me repeat the story to a number of other women. Lots of laughter and agreement. If they only knew.

See, just another advantage for women to pursue a wife-led marriage.

Friday, June 13, 2008

Father's Day

Father's Day in a wife-led marriage. Hmm, are there societal cotradictions? I don't think so. As an at home Dad, I do everything I can to be a great Dad except bring home a paycheck. And I do rule the roost. But as my wife said once, "You are the boss of the house and the kids. And I'm the boss of you."

To all the father's out there. Happy Father's Day. And remember, being a great Dad is doing everything you can to make your family "work."

ps: And I don't think that Father's Day should be a day off from serving our wives!! LOL

Friday, June 06, 2008

The Wave

Another little something...

Her: "How are you getting to work today."

Me: Puzzled..."Driving the van."

Her: "Does it have gas in it?"

Me: "Yes."

((Oh crap, I know where this is going.))

Her: "Did you notice my gas tank was near empty when you brought the car home from the dealer?"

Me: "No."

Her: "When I got in it, the gas light went on."

Me: "Sorry, if I'd noticed I would have filled it up."

Her: "hmmmm."

Me: "Would you like me to go and fill it up now?"

((Understand that we are a bit rushed to get to work and normally she would just say that she would do it.))

Her: ~~~~waving~~~~~

Me: "Yes, dear I'll be right back."

Her: "And keep those boxers on." (See previous post, I've got boxers that say "wife worshipper.")

Wow, I love this woman.

Tuesday, June 03, 2008

Its the little things that matter

90% fo the the time I serve my wife coffee in front of the TV after her shower. We get to spend some time together discussing kids, house renovation, etc. And because she goes to bed quite early each night it is a frequent time for us to "play."

For the past few mornings I've been serving my wife in boxers that read "Wife Worshipper" on them. I purchased them from Cafe Press as a happy medium between being naked or in sweats. She likes them and so do I.

As normal, this morning I served her coffee in those boxers. Around 6:30 I slipped on some shorts to go wake up our teenager. She looked at the gym shorts and said she didn't like them. I told her that I'd remove them once I woke him up (and implied once back in our room) and serve her breakfast in them only. She replied, "Good."

Now this may not seem like much but regular readers of this blog know of our struggles and her recently renewed interest in a wife led marriage. It's the little things that really keep me going. And for good measure, I sent her the following email:

"Thanks for saying that you didn't like my blue shorts and implying that I should only wear my new boxers while serving you. It's these subtle reminders of our wife-led marriage that are so very important."

Thanks for reading.

Sunday, June 01, 2008

Still Here....

sitting at the computer after serving my wife in "wife worshipper" boxers from CafePress. All is well and the WLM is back to a steady pace. More later.