You Say Tomato, I say Tomato
Sometimes it's just in how you look at things. And this was never more completely illustrated than this past Saturday morning.
We had plans for our family to join friends at a lake. We needed to have our picnic packed, towels and suits in a gym bag and beach chairs in the van by 9:15 am.
As I groggily staggered into the kitchen desperate for morning coffee, my wife was in her workout attire and heading out the door. She told me she was going for a walk/run and then would come home and shower.
I knew right then that she didn't have enough time to exercise and help pack for our lake trip.
Off she went. And I happily made lunches for our family, doing everything needed for a fun trip.
Eventually she got back and realized her shower would have to be quick if we were to be ontime.
That night we were discussing WLM stuff and I told her that I was quite happy that she had time for exercise because I did all the other stuff. To me this was a fun mini wife led "moment" except that she didn't say, "Will you please do everything, I am going to exercies."
Last week she told me that her cafeteria was closed this week and to expect that I'll need to bring her lunch on short notice. God I hope so!
posted by whatevershesays @ 5:55 AM
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5 Comments:
To be honest, I am still surprised that there are men like you out there. I mean I KNOW that men with an attitude like yours do exist, but on the other hand, it sounds like a female dream come true to me. If a WLR does bring such advantages, well, I am definitely interested...
OK, I am already interested in dd anyway, but after reading your entry, I am even more sure that thats the way how things should be :-)
way cool. glad things are clicking again.
She has asked for your input.
Ask that she read your past posts.
They are a clear window to your soul that she needs to see if she wants to see what you need in your marriage.
Neither of you are able to express what you feel in a quick conversation. Share this with her, and let her see
where your head is at, and then if she wants to proceed in trying to improve your relationship.
This blog is a gold mine for her to understand and help you both to move forward
Remember she loves you and needs to understand what you require to be happy.
Best of Luck
Gregoryfreer
I started down the submissive path because of a lack of intimacy between my wife and I. Basically she had no libido and thought she was doing me a favour bay letting me have sex whenever I wanted it. She would just lie there and I would do it. Then I would feel down and when I told her how I felt, then she would feel used.
It took some convincing of her that masturbation on my part was just a reminder of my weakness. That I did not need to actually cum. That I got a lot of satisfaction when she came. Yet she had basically no libido. There was no flirting. No text messages. I only gave her flowers when I had made her sad.
Now neither of us want me wearing a chastity device. But that is because now chastity is in our minds. By me not cuming without her, I am respecting her. But one of the biggest things as far as fulfilment is when we have sex and she cums and I don't.
Yesterday we lay on the bed for a rest and maybe sex. I have learned to just hold her and not run my hands over her or grope her. I really appreciate it though when she puts her hands down and teases me by stroking my penis and bringing me to erection. The other thing that is a great change is that she talks during sex and when she is ready she will place my hand on her back side or leg. So no pressure on her. It is also fun that she now gives me rules.
Some of our rules are
No thrusting up against her and pressuring her for sex. She knows I am always thinking about sex and does not need me to to crassly remind her.
Sitting on the toilet (No standing to pee and therefore dripping on the floor).
The best one, I don't cum without her permission.
So anyway she then takes of her undies and asks me to push inside her. This I do gently because I know that there can be some pain. Then the next best bit. With me inside her she pushes me over so she is on top. She then rides me and cums. After relaxing on my for a while she then started to move again. I move too but I have to really control myself so I don't cum. Every now and then I have to stop thrusting in order to control myself. She came again.
This was repeated again and for a fouth time. Then she rolled me over and with me on top she looked me in the eye OK lets have breakfast.
OOooh the sexual tension. So I withdrew. Wiped myself clean. She went and had a shower while I went and set the table and started cooking breakfast. Ahh the tension is so much fun
Mitch
Don't be so high maintenance! Your expectation that She say "Will you please do everything...." is unrealistic. Some of those things should be understood and go without saying. Things are as they should be when the Domme assumes things will get done!
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