Tuesday, March 22, 2011


I had a very interesting encounter this morning with my wife. I did a bit of wanking and asked not to orgasm.

She said she was confused. She commented that "if I get frustrated and an orgasm releases that frustration isn't that good?"

"I replied that it's just as good if not better when you get me aroused and I'm not allowed to orgasm."

"But sometimes you get so angry because you are frustrated."

"That's true but ONLY when you ignore me. Arousal/denial/frustration when you are actively involved is totally different than if you just ignore me."


I can't count the number of times I've told her that I just need her to be involved in our sex life and that teasing/arousal can be fun and potentially easier than having intercourse, etc (she doesn't have a libido.)

Over on the blog ATALLTIMES, there is a recent post about a commenter saying that he (AAT) should stop pestering his wife with emails/texts, etc to deny him. That "once" (telling your wife your needs) is enough. Ha! I couldn't disagree more.

Now, my wife may or may not understand. If she can find the fun and the ability to activate the sexual part of her brain is a totally different, and quite sad, issue.


At 9:04 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi WSS, I was only thinking that you hadn't posted recently.

I hear what your saying, but in the same way that we can't understand why our wives don't get this, they probably don't understand what we want.

There is one thing explaining what it is that you need, it's another thing getting someone else to understand what we are saying. The problem is that we just don't sit down and spell it out in pain language, we tie it up with different words, expressions, little subtle hints or suggestions, and then wonder why their is misunderstanding.

Look at it from your wives point of view. For probably years your ultimate goal has been having an orgasm during some sexual encounter with yoru wife, and get frustrated when you don't have regular contact with your wife, then you change and want to be aroused and excited but then denied the one thing that you have always wanted, and then when your wife "gives" you what you seem to want, not to have an orgasm, you're still not happy.

I understand fully your need for acknowledgment, to be aroused, even teased and then denied, but does your wife. I agree it's not rocket science, but then again it's not always that easy unless you can explain it in very simple, if unromantic terms.

At 7:57 AM, Blogger whatevershesays said...

AAT: I have been even more explicit than you (and that's saying something:) in what I need and what I think would work for us.

The issue here isn't implemenation or acting upon the teasing and denying. It's that she didn't understand what I wanted.

At 2:23 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

WSS - maybe you're being too explicit, maybe your wife feels that this is all about you. Only you can know this, but it's a thought. If I have learned anything, it's that you can't just have what you want, you can't "make" your wife be dominant, it has almost got to be earned, in return for giving her what she wants.

At 2:57 AM, Blogger subservient-husband said...


Women are put on this earth to frustrate us men. We can beat the system by learning to glean pleasure from it.



At 6:26 PM, Blogger Ajay said...

nce............. bt nt much funny

At 2:25 PM, Blogger Susan's Pet said...

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At 2:28 PM, Blogger Susan's Pet said...

WSS, I have been experiencing the frustration of ignore-and-deny for some time. The "tease" part is missing, but the deny is certainly there. I was going to comment on your plight, but my would-be comment became too wordy, so I decided to post it on my blog instead on April fool's day.

I think I know what is going on. You might want to read it. Good luck, anyway.

At 7:32 AM, Blogger Tony King said...

Interesting comments posted...a great way to spend a Sunday morning while drinking coffee.

Cheers Guys.

At 6:05 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

"Poisoning their brainwashed minds." xtainity brainwashed you. Liberalism is the poison.
The gods used xtainity to demonize Lucifer, ensuring people refused to heed the teachings of THE SECOND COMING!!!. Lucifer is the Second Coming of Christ!!!
xtianity is the product of the Apostle's books of the New Testiment and can't be trusted to contain the true teachings of Jesus Christ. Just like each one of you corrupt whores, the gods could have tempted them with immortality if they lied when writing the New Tesatiment. Then the gods dictated verbatim specifically to parlay into the destructive phenominah known as xtianity.
We have seen the gods engage in similar behavior to keep people away from good religions, with the Jews in Palestine and Muslims recently post-9.11, demonizing both.
This is another of the god's wicked curveballs, their reverse positioning tool extensively employed, utilizing positioning to prepare for the Apocalypse and your "consolation prize" of "1000 years with Jesus on Earth".

Guns are bad because they empower men. Much like weightlifting and racing...
Any male-dominated activity is a red flag, just like anything which black subculture compells blacks. Yes, women have guns. Now. Historically this wasn't an issue. They didn't drink. They didn't gamble. Sports. They didn't do so many behaviors the gods dump men into because they are so destructive.
Now we are losing this, and with it the hope for the future of humanity on Planet Earth.
Your women are your only chance, and the more masculinized they are the less hope you have. Women have always avoided these temptations, and have always guided the men into wisdom and knowledge, allowing them to make progress and avoid another shitty placement when reincarnated. This is the historical relationship between the two genders, and it is changing as we approach The End.

"It's all going to hell. I don't have to deal with this mess I helped create. I won't be here so I don't give a fuck." This is the theory people have subscribed to for a couple of lifetimes, and will continue to until they understand reincarnation is real and will be enforced upon them.

What I say is no different than any Republican in the quest to reduce the enormous scope of government.
All those years of increasing government. None of those people were laid off as we regulratly witness in the private sector. Imagine the dead weight on the payroll.
You have to start laying people off. Unfortunately insolvency is the goal the gods have for the United States.
It's kind of like Mom:::So evil she isn't eligible for punishment until the end of her life when it is too late

Brain scramble jokes. She was a fake.
All in this position likely are fakes. The gods want things to prgress according to their agenda, and the clone host fakes guarentee the legislation they desire/require.
They aree always fresh, new know-it-all 20 year olds, eager to hurt people and "earn", so the only way things will improve is ironically if our children improve, if parents raise considerate, moral children. But while we have trashy parents like my family the gods will always have an endless supply of immoral monsers happy to sabotage the country through legislation.

In the course of decay and deterioration of the favor of the people the gods instructed their clone host tools in corporate to make changes to their products and subsequently in people's lives. The switch to plastic/disposable-based packaging is an outstanding example. Another is the extensive use/proliferation of disposable diapers. Whereas diaper services were the norm during the 20th cenutry a change occurred in the 70s/80s and parents began to incurr evil upon their children, and sadly in some cases think they were "earning" off their own infant children!!!

At 4:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe you just don't do it for her...


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