Just laying it on the line

My wife's lack of sexual desire makes her feel like a terrible wife. And I feel bad for my part. The other night we had a long talk about what I need. I know, it is supposed to be about her. But she really wants to make me happy so I told her...."laid it on the line" so to speak.

Frankly, I want to orgasm once per week. Intercourse, her masturbating me, my masterbation, doesn't really matter as long as she is involved. The other thing I told her is that I'd like to get hard for her 2-3 other times per week. Orgasm optional. She can stroke me, tell me to touch myself, whatever but that is what I feel is a minimum average and again she must be involved.

I'd don't know what's "normal" in a wife led marriage but regardless, both people have to be happy. I think that she is more at ease now because prior to our conversation she sometimes felt that she couldn't get "kinky" enough to please me so why try. Now she has a better understanding that it doesn't take much. I'll let you know how it goes.


ps:
She did snap her fingers and point to the side of the bed and told me to touch myself while she read her book. I got pretty close before she enough, bed time.

Love, Honor and ?????

I found this pretty cool wedding/anniversary card. It showed a new bride about to get into the after wedding limo and it said, "Love, Honor and, well 2 out of 3 is pretty good."

I bought it for our anniversary and wrote in it that both our vows didn't include the word "obey."

Her only response was, "But you will obey me." Of course!!

Subtle Fun

Sorry for not have posted in a while. All is well. Pretty much on cruise control. However, last weekend a friend of mine and I made dinner for our wives. On more than one occasion my wif easked me to server her a drink, mentioned that the boys should also clean up (we did) and at least twice slipped in the fact that she had issued an ultimatum regarding us getting married. There were a few other wife-led comments, very subtle but definately there.

Later I asked her if she thought they knew. She responded by saying that she was sure that the other couple were wife led also.

Because I'm not the one that's horny

LOL. No, it is not what you are thinking. This is what my wife said to me as she exited the kitchen, telling me to clean it up, make lunches for the kids school, etc. What a huge turn on.

I'll thank her again this morning for her acknowledgement of my situation and the flagrant exercise of her power.