Her Control is Her Control
What a great way to wake up. As I came out of my deep slumber Sunday morning, I felt my wife's foot in my crotch. She carefully manipulated me until I was good and aroused at which point I couldn't help myself and frantically started to hump her foot and leg. That's about the time she decided she needed her coffee.
Now most guys would be angry if the wife got him all aroused only to stop. But not us guys in wife led marriages. Nope. I happily bounced out of bed and brought her some coffee all the while sporting some serious wood. Well, honestly, by the time I brought her coffee back I was, shall we say, at 1/2 mast....hey, the house was cold.
With our impending trip to Az and warmth and pools and bathing suits and sundresses and open toed shoes, she needed some foot care. Again, in a great mood, I pumiced her feet smooth while kneeling, naked of course, next to her. Life was damn good!
At the end, she had me masturbate. I told her it wasn't necessary but she insisted.
I would rather her have just kept me aroused then send me on my merry away. But her control is her control.
posted by whatevershesays @ 3:52 PM
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8 Comments:
Given your comments in the past about the lack of intimacy and acknowledgment in your relationship, I would not push the denial thing too far when presented with such a great morning wake up call, followed by some serious foot maintenance. I know pot kettle and black spring to mind lol Clearly your wife was fully aware of what she was doing and what she wanted you to do. I know how you must be feeling about denial, but what you had was almost as good. The most important thing is that your wife was in control, had you doing what she wanted, and if she wants to deny you she will, but when she is ready. She knows that you want it, just keep giving her the reasons and opportunity to deny you in this way and eventually she might.
Every morning before my wife and I get out of bed, I am allowed to fondle her breasts thru her skimpy thin nightie. An then she tells me to lie on my back and proceeds to stroke my cock and balls. Sometimes gently other times with some intensity. I wear panties all of the time and the feeling of her stroking and rubbing me thru the silky material is incredible. But after a short while she always stops and says "time to get up". She says that doing this to me every morning will keep her in my thoughts throughout the day. I am never allowed to cum when she does this, and many times I really have to hold back.
My wife is a firm believer in orgasm control and has read that 10 orgasms in a year is more than enough for any man, but 6 to 9is better. She is allowing me the privledge of having 8 this year she told me. Although it is now March, I have not cummed once in 2010. AT this rate, I will be on the low end of her belief. It is mutual, we are very much in love, I serve her constantly and would not change a thing. It makes her very happy to deny me and keep me aroused. If it makes her happy, then I will do it no matter what. It is very difficult but I promised I would never masturbate. I am much better behaved when kept horny.
I too submit myself to when my wife wants me to have an orgasm even if I do not. It is entirely her choice one way or the other.
My wife has rasied the stakes this week and has been arousing me all week both verbally and physically.
At this point everything I hear becomes suggestive and I think she enjoys watching me suffer. I have come to love orgasm control and denial.
As you so correctlt stated most guys would be pissed but us subs love the control.
I think I can best descripe it as finding out how far you can lean over the cliff without falling.
And the head game.... OMG, I love it
My wife has now told me that she wants to see how long I can go without an orgasm. She said she really wants to push me to the limit. She plays with me every morning and teases me at night. I must satisfy her orally maybe twice a week, and then nothing. As mentioned in my above post, I have not been allowed to cum at all this year, the last time she allowed me was Christmas 2009. It is now 10 weeks and she told me last night that she feels I can go alot farther than this. I am so horny, it is all I think about. I now wear my Cb 6000 to bed every night to avoid any wet dreams (so far so it has worked), and on weekends when my wife will be out for awhile and I don't want the temptation. She will allow me to put it on, and she will secure the lock, and of course take the keys. She does not want me to wear it much at all, she says it is an artifical control. She said that because she has told me to stay very horny is all the control I need. She told me that I cannot cum, her word is final.
I thought that after 10 weeks (nice round number) she would allow me relief, but we are going much further. I really don't know how much longer I can stand it. Yes, I have told her I love tease and denial, and she brings that up to me every day.
We have been a in a WLM for about 6 years now. The previous record was 7 weeks without cumming, but that was wearing a Cb 3000 full time. It is easier to go longer wearing a chastity device. My wife has really gotten into this T and D now. I massage her, do all the housework, wash and iron her clothes, put them away in drawers and her closet and NEVER talk back to her. And so much more. When she talks I stop what I am doing and give her my full attention. And that is the norm, not only when I'm horny. You can imagine how attentive I am now. She is gorgeous and sexy, likes sexy lingerie, very fit and loves to tease me by making me wash her in the shower and then pat her off. (With a warm towel that I have heated in the dryer). I have a feeling that my orgasms will be VERY limited from now on.
As I just read over my above post, I can see how much more of a slave I am to my wife than a husband. She tells me she loves me very often and does like to give me some reward for especially pleasing her. After I bring her to orgasm, if I have really pleased her in the last few weeks, she will allow me to enter her and tell me I I can go in for a certain number of strokes. Usually 4 to 8 strokes. But it's with a severe waring about cumming, that it's not allowed and to pull out early if it becomes too much to hold back.
Do other WLM submissive men in a great relationship also experience this and are kept horny for longer than I am presently now? Are you guys also doing everything around the house like me and are being teased and denied? Am I too much of her slave at this point, I do feel that she should do what pleases her. Even if it means that I do everything to please her. Am I living an envious life for many submissive guys, or have I only become her slave? I welcome your comments. Thanks!!
Anon: I appreciate your comments but if you want feedback on your "situation" please start up your own blog:)
Just trying add something to the topic. An exchange of thoughts and ideas is a great way to keep this blog interesting. Asking us submissive men to exchange our lifestyles with you and eachother makes for a great dialogue and would help improve many relationships I read about here.
My wife does read your blog and enjoys it when other women add comments. We have a great WLM relationship, I couldn't ask for anything better than how she treats me. Even on a punishment day, because I know I have earned it.
Too bad you seem offended, I was just trying to help you and others. I feel we can always share what works and why. And who else can we turn to to get information on what others think about what we do.
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