Not alot to blog about. We are just cruising along. Some minor ups and downs but nothing blog worthy. And she has a very large project due in 2 weeks so I don't expect much "action" during this time.
I find I have to remember in times where my wife is busy with outside projects consuming her free time and I am feeling neglected, that this is not about me. That is when I work on my empathy and try to imagine what she is enjoying at the moment and how I can help out. That then helps get me out of the funk and motivated again until she swings back around and engages her authority over me.
Things are well here. We spent the whole weekend together and with the kids and several other extended family members. I cleared all the routine chores away before, so the weekend was just entertainment.
Really just a regular guy. Happily married. Most women are the "boss" of their marriage. The only difference is that I've admitted it and she has acknowledged it.
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I find I have to remember in times where my wife is busy with outside projects consuming her free time and I am feeling neglected, that this is not about me. That is when I work on my empathy and try to imagine what she is enjoying at the moment and how I can help out. That then helps get me out of the funk and motivated again until she swings back around and engages her authority over me.
Things are well here. We spent the whole weekend together and with the kids and several other extended family members. I cleared all the routine chores away before, so the weekend was just entertainment.
use this time to prove your submission is real and give her reasons to be thankful that she is in charge
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