Exercising Control

"You can turn off my light now." Shit, I hate that. I w, s just about asleep, her lamp is in arms reach, yet she makes me get out of bed and walk over and turn off her light. And honestly, I didn't want to. I was tired and her lack of anything sexual was making me mad. Other than the times I've initiated something sexual, nothing from her in almost 2 weeks. We had a date at an outdoor concert on Tuesday night and nothing then. I suppose my frustration was showing.

After turning off the light and getting back into bed she said, "I thought I should exercise my control. Because I can." Wow.

And then this morning I went thought my normal (ha, normal for us:) ritual of presenting her coffe to her on one knee and saying something like, "With this coffee, I thee promise to love, honor and obey." It changes daily.

And after I said that she just looked at me. Didn't extend her hand to take her coffee. Just stared at me. So I tried again with a different phrase. Nothing, she just stared at me.

So I said, "With this coffee, I thee promise to love, honor, obey and to turn off your light without attitude." Coffee service completed.

Hey At All Times, lets combine our wives. Yours is dominant in the bedroom, mine out of the bedroom. LOL