Don't Ask

"Do you want to cum?" I hate this question. It makes me wonder if she wants me to or not or is she doing it for me. etc etc. Last night she asked again. I told her to not ask, just tell. She responded that she doesn't like to feel bitchy. We discussed this issue and I reassured her that I don't think of it as bitchy, just "normal" in that a marriage works best if the wife controls her husbands orgasms. And besides, it's FUN and PLAYFUL.

While we were watching TV this morning she said, "Release." (Our code word for me to masturbate to orgasm). Who am I to argue!! LOL

I think, hope, that this is a turning point. That she finally is taking a more active role in direct orgasm management.