Tuesday, September 25, 2007

A Job?

I don't like to post too much personal information. But to suffice to say that I've only had part time work for a few years which has allowed me to be an at home Dad. This plays right into a wife led marriage.

A more significant part time job, about 30 hours, is mine if I want it. My wife thinks it would be a good idea. I told her that if I take the job, I don't want our Wife-led marriage dynamic to change. She said it might enhance it.

She looked me straight in the eye and told me she would use the some of the extra money for new boots, more frequent hair coloring and some additional shopping. That the money would be hers. I haven't told her that I was actually getting erect when she was talking!

If this all pans out, I think I'll set up a minor ceremony when I give her the first check or perhaps the paper work for a direct deposit into an account that only she has access to. This is really symbolic because I'll only make about $300 per week compared to her thousands that I control to pay the household bills. Still, it could be fun.

6 Comments:

At 1:23 AM, Anonymous At all Times said...

I am in a similar position in that I dont work, due to a medical condition, it does however allow me to remain at home whilst my wife has become the main bread winner. I can still do many of the household chores, and really enjoy the feeling that my wife is becoming more confident in her role has Mistress in her own house. Although it has taken a long time for her to accept my submissive side, she is slowly starting to expect more from me domestically, and is now openly taking on a more dominant role over me. I have to say that this has come after many months of stealth submission, and topping from the bottom, but I think I have finally started to pursuade her that she can actually enjoy her position of power, and that it is based upon a strong loving relationship rather than just about sex.

It was my birthday yesterday, after the kids were put to bed I gave her a present, and a wriiten dedication of my love and willingness to serve her as her loving and obedient husband. Later in the bedroom she made me kneel before her, she was dressed in stockings high heels, and not much else. She told me that she was in charge, that she controlled me, and that I must maintain the house to her standards from now on. She also mentioned punishments, and told me that I would have to wash her underwear the next day. She also told me that she would decide when we had sex and whether or not I would be allowed an orgasm.

I am still waiting to see how much of this sentiment is carried outside the bedroom, or how much of it was just for "my birthday".

I definitely think that you should take the job, and giving over your pay to your wife would be a great way of reinforcing her position of power that she has over you. Keep up the good work I love your blog and always follow it with interest.

 
At 5:54 AM, Blogger whatevershesays said...

Thanks for your comments and I hope your wife continues outside the bedroom.

An anonymous poster, a woman, wrote with great wisdom about the emotional connection. It is my blog comments, the one with 12 or 13 comments a few back. You may want to read it and give it to your wife. I did because it was so well written and expressed my sentiments. I may even copy it and blog about it.

 
At 6:15 AM, Anonymous at all times said...

Yes I read that, it was really well written, and I would love for my wife to see it, maybe it would help her understand more about how I feel, and what this type of relationship means to me, but I am to fightened of what she might say if she knew that I was looking at blogs like yours (no offence).

We are at a really delicate stage in our relationship at the moment, heading for me in the right direction, I wouldnt want to upset things now, having taken so long to get where we have, but thanks for your advice.

 
At 3:31 PM, Blogger helpmate hubby said...

i think that is a totally sweet and hot idea. i think you should manage the house with the money she makes and have the other money put in an account that she alone controls, or at least cash the check every payday and give her all your earnings. i bet all that disposable income in her hands could really bring out the dominant Alpha WIfe within her.

 
At 1:37 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just wanted to say that thanks whatevershesays for your great blog, it has inspired me in my own relationship with my wife, and has given me the courage to start my own blog, which I hope you will look at sometime.

 
At 5:45 PM, Anonymous HUBSUB said...

THIS BLOG HAS INSPIRED ME TO BECOME THE SUB THAT I WAS MEANT TO BE. I'M NEW TO THESE BLOGS, BUT AM SO HAPPY TO KNOW I'M NOT ALONE. YOU GUYS ARE DOING AN EXCELLENT JOB KEEPING THE REST OF US IN TUNE TO OUR FEELINGS. THANKS

 

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