A Question
For most guys, they lose some of their submissive intensity after an orgasm.
Does your wife lose some of her dominant tendencies after she has an orgasm?
Does your wife lose some of her dominant tendencies after you orgasm?
Normally, my wife loses quite a bit of her dominant tendencies after she allows me to orgasm. Fortunately, after saturday mornings release on the deck (in the rain again) she has been quite bossy. Thankfully.
What about you?
posted by whatevershesays @ 5:48 AM
5 comments
5 Comments:
Just my opinion, but I think it's more correct to say that after an orgasm, a man loses the sense of arousal that heightens the sense of submission; it takes a certain refractory period in order to get back into that zone.
Perhaps women don't lose the dominant tendencies, so much as they don't want to wrestle over it when the man loses the submission.
Mine doesn't lose his submissiveness, and I don't lose my dominance.
Then again, a lot of times it's at the end of the day or we fall asleep immediately afterwards. *LOL*
nakeysub's Mistress.
My wife gets even bolder when she has achieved orgasm, especially the intense kind brought on by her favorite toy. I begged for more than a handjob yesterday, but she refused and made me lay still and accept it or forget the whole thing.
Good question WSS.
As Jane’s orgasms and mine are almost always linked, there is a very noticeable loss of submissive intensity from my point of view, and the same is also true of Jane’s dominant tendencies. On these occasions, whilst I still remain submissive and attentive, I definitely lose the intense feeling that has built up pre-orgasm, and things that may have affected me pre-orgasm, don’t have that same effect post orgasm. The same is also true of Jane’s dominant tendencies, which seem to be less demanding and generally less interested in expressing any unnecessary signs of dominance once she has fulfilled her obligation to give me an orgasm. I guess this goes back to, and parallels can be drawn, to our vanilla sex life, when having had sex, Jane did not feel the need to have it again for some time. I think the same pattern is developing with our wife led sexual encounters.
On the few occasions when Jane has teased and denied me, but having had her own orgasm, things have been completely different. Having been denied, my submissive feelings and desire to please Jane increase significantly, and even the most innocent of comments or wife led situations are accentuated in my mind, and elevate themselves and combine to give me an overwhelming sense that Jane is enjoying and encouraging my submission. That is why I am so keen to be denied, to prolong that feeling and to see Jane grow more dominant.
For me, this is one of the single biggest reasons why I believe that couples in our situation have so many ups and downs, as Tom says, as the man losses much of his sense of arousal that heigthens his sense of submission. For this reason alone, post male orgasm it makes it much harder for the wife to satisfy the mans desire to submit because his sense of submission has been significantly reduced. It maybe more likely, therefore, that the wife's dominant tendancies don't change that much post orgasm, but her husbands perception of what is and what's not a dominant act do.
After 1 month I allow my husband an orgasm, usually inside me or I will stroke him to climax. We always do this at night, then go to sleep. Your wife should never allow you to orgasm in the morning, because then she has the whole day to see you non-responsive and lethargic. Men are best when kept VERY horny, personally I believe she is granting you way too many orgasms. TEN a year is plenty for every husband, my husband will probably have 8 this year at the present rate . His submission stays heightened, especially after he performs oral sex on me. (Hey, he's the submissive one, not me, I'm not staying horny at all).
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