Just Chugging Along
Some people can make their posts thought provoking. Some make them controversial. I'm sure some make them up. Others detail their sex life. Some are new to the wife led scene and many struggle.
I suppose I fit into the last category. Just a guy, trying to find what works for him and his wife. Keeping the sex alive. Proud that they still communicate and work on their marriage.
Where do you fit? Feel free to create your own "category."
posted by whatevershesays @ 8:15 PM
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Hi "whatevershesays"
Hmm, too early to say what category i am in at the moment. It is all going well and i am learning a great deal about the difference between fantasy (Totaly controlling Bitch Domme) and reality (Composed, confidant woman who accepts her role as leader and decision maker).
The latter leaving me more satified that i ever could have imagined.
The more i give, the more i get.
We are loving the journey.
Regards
Mistress Lady Vixen's slave
adinis
whatevershesays,
I tend to use my blogging as a tool to communicate with my wife... I have always written much better than I speak, so it's much easier for me to communicate to her my feelings and thoughts through the blog than by trying to think of the words to say on the spot.
That's not to say that I don't talk to my wife -- we do talk and it's great, but I think I get my point across so much better when I have the opportunity to write down what I want to say instead of winging it.
My blog is an escape from reality, an anti-facebook, if you will, where I can talk with strangers as friends without the risk of offending or revealing something too personal. I try to reveal a lot without revealing too much. Does that make sense?
We all have our purpose. We all have our style.
I tell the truth, nothing but the truth, but not the whole truth. I also write to provoke readers, but not to insult them. I like to point out pretention and fakery, but I gloss over stupidity, for I am guilty of that from time to time.
I find my blog a creative outlet targeted to readers who are interested in the somewhat narrow subject of Female Led Relationship, but also try to provide context and entertainment.
I write fantasy from time to time, but when so, I point out that it is not real.
I see blogging a way of sharing ideas and experiences, but writing has also helped me formulate or organise my own thoughts and feelings about all of this. It has ceratinly helped, and now after almost 18 moths at this, I have a far better understanding of what is realistically achievable and how better to get there.
We've been spending most of our time just chugging along recently. Daily life can get in the way of intimate/personal life and FLR isn't all that noticeable.
That's ok. I'm not obsessed with having the perfect FLR but know that things will progress in their own time.
We don't put ourselves into any category... Dante (my husband) is an alpha male and he certainly loves to spank me. I'm not a true submissive, but like to play that role and prefer it when he is dominant in the bedroom but I also have a strong dominant streak myself, which I actually like! So we are definitely a mixed bag, especially when he lets me spank him, lol, which has happened only 3 or 4 times. He likes my dominant, confident side, too, but doesn't want to be on the losing end of it, cause then it becomes a power struggle, which I'd lose.
This is the first I've been to your place but I like it! Good luck and hang in there! Both of you!
Oh, and yeah, everything I've written on my blog (and what he's written on his) is TRUE! But we don't completely expose ourselves, either.
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