A fine start

She finally read the book, Aroundherfinger but didn't find any suprises. She's always understood that its about using my sex drive, etc. She also agrees that maintaing a level of sexuality is tough for her because she just isn't wired that way.

I try to tell her that teasing me doesn't need to be an everyday thing. Here is an example of what happened to this past week. I hope it opens up a more realistic dialog bewteen you and your spouse.

I took a short trip and returned on Wednesday morning. As we were sitting on the front steps, she asked me if I'm ready to "get back in the game." Caught off guard, I say what game? She then says, "bring me my coffee. When we are finished, you have to come grocery shopping with me." Now I know it doesn't sound like much but I was really appreciated the fact that she was thinking of our new roles. (And I NEVER grocery shop:) While shopping she told me what to get, pick this/that up, go get. etc. And I'm sure some women over-heard us. She even asked me what my reply was going to be to the cashier when asked if we wanted pull-up service. I told the cashier that she (my wife) brought me along to take care of that. But for me, the best part was that she thought of it.

The next morning I playfully got dressed only in an apron and served her coffee. I was hoping to orgasm since it has been over a week. She acknowledged the length of time but was rushing to work and felt bad and that there had to be some give and take in this type of relationship. I told her that yesterday (supermarket trip) was fantastic and that's all that is needed. I kinda wish I didn't push the issue with an apron. Live and learn.

Anyway, that's all for now. Things are going along nicely and we are both realizing that the sexual aspect of a wife led relationship is not 24/7. Please feel free to leave comments. I learn alot from other people's perspective.